Khaos WolfKat

I'm into music more than anything else, whether it's making it, listening to it, thinking about it or talking about it. Music is the one thing in the world, without which, I think I would just shrivel up and cease to exist. I listen to about anything, but my passion is metal! Melodic death, black metal, power metal, Viking metal, thrash, speed, operatic/symphonic/epic metal...All things metal!
Some favourite bands in no particular order

I tend to be a bit of an introvert.
This isn't to say that I don't like people.. On the contrary, I love people, as long as it's in moderation. I can be very social and a total "people person" for a reasonable period of time, but then I need to go isolate in my cave for a while and get my solitude fix. A lot of people don't like that about me and feel I'm antisocial. Those who are worth my time will accept that it is part of what makes me me.
I am very open minded and respectful of almost any/all beliefs, but do not tolerate hate or bigotry in any form at all in my presence (Note that I do not hold ANYTHING too sacred to joke about.. I am talking about attitudes of actual intolerance).
Pretty much the only parts of any belief systems I have a problem with are the idea that everyone else is wrong and anything that harms others.
As for my own beliefs, they are many and varied.

 

 There are many labels by which I identify. These include, but are not limited to: Metalhead, Gorean, biker, hippie, warrior, spiritualist, teacher/mentor, student, queer, geek, cigar aficionada, coffee connoisseur (and snob - I admit it, with pride!),  reader, thinker, poly, kinky, pansexual, neuro-divergent, recovering alcoholic/addict (this means I do not drink alcohol or do any recreational substances, period), Grandma, prepper, dog mom, and much more. I am a INTJ and an Enneagram 8w7.
Labels are a convenience. They may help to explain me, but do not define or restrict me. 

I am fat, muscular, heavily tattooed, pierced, sarcastic, snarky, irreverently reverent, opinionated, have never met a topic I won't (intelligently, logically, and without personal attacks) debate/argue, and otherwise unfit for what some consider, "polite company". That said, I am more than capable of presenting myself well and acting like a lady in truly polite, non bigoted company - as in, don't expect me to hide who or what I am, but I also don't feel the need to be "in your face" about it.

I'm most likely to mesh well with other INTJ or similar types. 
 

Things I enjoy doing, things I'm good at, things I like to think about...
 

My Myers Briggs Type Indicator (INTJ) Full results
 

Some more of my favourite things   

My Big Five Aspects Scale Personality Assessment Scores

Consent, honesty, mindfulness and integrity are words to live by in my world.

Just for the sake of "truth in advertising", I tend to be a bit of a social flake. What this means.

I absolutely take responsibility and ownership of and for for my own actions, quirks, traits, shortcomings and insecurities and just as absolutely refuse to take responsibility or ownership for/of yours or those of any other adult. I am compassionate, but believe in tough love and doing one's own footwork, so if you invite me to your pity party, expect me to bring party favours laden with brutal truth.
 
You have been warned! ;)
 

Put this stupid cat on your profile to show that you will post any fucking
..../\„,„/\ thing on your profile that people tell you to.
...( =';'= ) If you are Sydney University, you don't have permission
..../♥♥\ to post this cat anywhere at all because it is on my profile.
..(.|.|..|.|.) This is TOTALLY legally binding and stuff, so you
totally have to do what I say! Seriously! I mean it! Hey! Where are
you goi........ Dammit! Not again!

I'll sponsor anyone who has a desire to stop drinking/using, is ready and willing to put recovery first, and will go to any lengths to achieve sobriety (including drugs other than alcohol, not taken as prescribed).

I sponsor ALL genders, and am LGBTQ+, poly, kink, and Leather supportive. 

I meet with each sponsee once per week, via Zoom (or in person if local enough), and am available by text, phone, and email as needed, to the extent that I am able. During the weekly meetings, read through the entire Big Book from the very beginning, learning how the first 100 or so members of AA recovered, and following their precise instructions on how to do so, as well as reading portions of the 12x12 for a greater understanding of the steps and traditions. The weekly meetings also include general checking in, talking about issues going on, and other things the sponsee needs. Once we've gone through all 12 steps and traditions, the scheduled, weekly meeting is replaced by regular contact and support on an as needed basis, so the time slot can go to the next new sponsee. 

I have four time slots per week dedicated to step work with sponsees: Sundays and Mondays from 2-3PM and 3-4PM, Pacific Time. 

Currently, I have one time slot open - the Sunday, 3-4PM one. 

New sponsees  will need the following materials:

1. Basic text of Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book)

2. Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12) (Online version available free)

3. Notebook or composition book

4. Pen/pencil

5. Highlighter (optional, but strongly suggested)

6. Dictionary (online/digital or hard copy)

7. A desire for recovery

8. Willingness to do the work and follow directions

9. Willingness to go to any lengths to stay sober/clean & sober (free from all drugs/alcohol)