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    • Khaos WolfKat
      Khaos WolfKat commented on the discussion topic What are your favourite meetings!?
      Here's a short list of my favourite meetings, most of which I attend every week. These are AA meetings, unless otherwise noted.All times here listed in Pacific, cause that's where I am.  Sober Stogies Zoom Link I usually attend on...Read more
      • Khaos WolfKat
        Khaos WolfKat added a new discussion topic What are your favourite meetings!?
        Here's a thread to post links and/or information about your favourite meetings, either online or in person. It would be great if you shared a little about each one, what you like about it, if it is a “special interest” meeting...
          • Khaos WolfKat
            By Khaos WolfKatComment by owner
            Here's a short list of my favourite meetings, most of which I attend every week. These are AA meetings, unless otherwise noted.All times here listed in Pacific, cause that's where I am.  Sober Stogies Zoom Link I usually attend on...
          • Khaos WolfKat
            Khaos WolfKat commented on the discussion topic Some people use AA as a dating service
            The “general rule”, as I've always heard it in the rooms, is, “Don't get into a relationship in your first year”, and, “Don't 13th step (hit on/pick up/fuck/get in a relationship with) the newcomers (AKA people in their first year)”. I...Read more
            • Charity
              Charity commented on the discussion topic Why are alcoholics not joiners?
              I know a lot of people that aren't big “joiners” and they don't drink.  I think some people are just naturally more introverted/extoverted and depending on which you are plays into that.  I'm not a big joiner because I've been down that...Read more
              • Charity
                Charity commented on the discussion topic Some people use AA as a dating service
                My feelings are if you are using it just for that purpose it's creepy and predatory.  If you happen to meet someone and a relationship develops slowly over time, who am I to judge?  Personally, I never thought about dating anyone in AA...Read more
                • Dan E
                  Dan E added a new discussion topic Some people use AA as a dating service
                  I've had issues with some people who've used AA to find dates/sex We don't seem to have direct rules against people meeting in AA, like you might at church or a club and deciding to go on a date.What are people's feelings on this?(I'm not...
                    • Charity
                      By Charity
                      My feelings are if you are using it just for that purpose it's creepy and predatory.  If you happen to meet someone and a relationship develops slowly over time, who am I to judge?  Personally, I never thought about dating anyone in AA...
                      • Khaos WolfKat
                        By Khaos WolfKat
                        The “general rule”, as I've always heard it in the rooms, is, “Don't get into a relationship in your first year”, and, “Don't 13th step (hit on/pick up/fuck/get in a relationship with) the newcomers (AKA people in their first year)”. I...
                      • Dan E
                        Dan E added a new discussion topic Why are alcoholics not joiners?
                        I've heard a lot of stories about alcoholics saying they didn't feel like they fit in. Also, and possibly related, they weren't big "joiners" of clubs, organizations, etc.Is this universal or what is going on here? Is the addiction itself making us...
                          • Charity
                            By Charity
                            I know a lot of people that aren't big “joiners” and they don't drink.  I think some people are just naturally more introverted/extoverted and depending on which you are plays into that.  I'm not a big joiner because I've been down that...
                          • Dan E
                            Dan E joined the group Unity in the Fellowship!
                            • Khaos WolfKat
                              Khaos WolfKat created the group Unity in the Fellowship!
                              Unity has provided us with a fellowship made up of people who share our own common problem; who give us the love and support necessary to maintain our sobriety. AA’s 12 Traditions present the principles which support the unity of the AA fellowship...